While details are definitely important, I’m pretty sure just about any saddle designed for women would have made me feel like i was sitting on air in comparison to the serfas I had.
I ended up with a basic women’s specialized saddle, the BG sonoma. It was $30 at my local bike shop. And it was the best $30 i’ve spent on my bike since I really started riding it. Did another 6 hour tour on some nice single track this weekend and I’m not sore at all. And I feel like my whole bike posture was better because I wasn’t trying to compensate for an uncomfortable saddle.
I should not have waited so long!